When you like a friend and/or vice versa, saying “I don’t want to date you, because things won’t be the same” shouldn’t be a reply. From either person.
9 times out of 10- in my opinion- once either of the friends catch feelings for the other, things are already NOT the same, whether they date or not. So the question should be “Do I want to date them and get as much out of this as possible or do I want to keep up the facade of ‘things still being the same’?”
Either way, the friendship is possibly gonna end simply because feelings were caught.
Talk to them about it and/or wait it out and see. If you think your friendship with them is worth it, stay.
If you don’t, then cut your losses.
When it comes to healthy eating, you have to know your body. You have to know what foods go to where and what places you want to gain weight or lose weight or maintain weight, etc. Everybody’s body is different, so keep that in mind. What helps me get bigger boobs or a flatter tummy may not be what helps you.
Generally, don’t eat anything too fattening- nothing with too much oil, don’t eat too much starch, eat as little (or no) fast food as you can.
Foods that are good for your body though, is foods with a lot of fiber and protein, etc. Dairy, Wheats, Nuts and Berries.
Pay attention to how many servings you consume each meal and each day.
And of course we ALL know, that eating healthy is just one part of being healthy. You also have to exercise. You should be exercising at least 30 minutes a day. Go on walks (which is how I exercise), dance (also how I exercise lol), play in a park, etc.
And after you exercise, don’t rest for too long. An active body is a healthy body.
Nah, not stupid at all :]
One question- why do you want to talk to random chicks? lol
But okay, if I were a guy, I’d get familiar with the girl first, that way she won’t feel creeped out or feel like I’m just another guy tryina bag/get in her pants.
Make conversation- NO PICK UP LINES. Be yourself, don’t try to impress her. DO NOT come on strong, just say “Hi” or like maybe a random joke or whatever. The most important thing to do is to be her friend, don’t try to be her boy friend (at least not yet lol). If you can get her to talk to you, then you did good :]
Everything else is all you after that. Oh and don’t force anything, don’t act like someone or something you’re not.
Can you handle being with someone that cheated on you? Knowing that he might possibly do it again? Do you love him that much- so much that you don’t care that he cheated on you?
And also, are you 100% sure that he even cheated on you?
Now it's a few years later and I want to apologize for the way I treated him, but I can't get in contact with him. I don't know what school he goes/went to, I don't remember his last name, he didn't have any friends in the school that we went to so I can't ask around for his number or anything... I'm trying to find a way to contact him and I refuse to give up until I find him. What do you think I should do about the situation? Like, how can I find him?
You should always start at the beginning. Go back to the school you guys went to and ask the teachers and the principles and staff. Make sure you find out his last name. Did you try Facebook or Twitter or Myspace?
Okay, with situations like this, I’m going to have to know more.
How much does your family know about you? Do they suspect that you’re gay? What are their views on homosexuals?
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